About

Ms. Sandalwood's hand holds a black studded paddle; a pair of black Vera Wang high-heeled shoes is visible in the background.

You my call me Ms. Sandalwood. I’m a big curvy woman with a youthful outlook. My home base is Nebraska, but I love to travel when able.

I’ve been involved in the real-life BDSM scene for 25+ years in the Midwest and in California as both a participant and presenter at numerous events.

Some of the activities that I personally love include spanking & paddling 📏, attention to my feet 🦶, and delivering sensation play. I love using my manicured nails as a tool. 💅 I enjoy being a keyholder and sending fun photos of your key 🔑  to you, to remind you that I’m in charge. 🔐

What do I love about being a dominant?
Vulnerability. It’s intoxicating to me.
I adore it.

All genders and presentations are welcome under my firm but loving hand, incluing gender creative and non-conforming people. A child of the 80s, I was a huge fan of the punk/new wave music scene, where it was incredibly common for musicians and artists to blur and cross gender lines.

I look forward to your service.